What Does Your Girls Night Out Look Like?

Girls night. The long-awaited night out with the girls. Tell me, how does your girls night out look?

Flashy clothes that cover JUST what they need to?

• Do you use your girls night out to finally wear those clothes you’ve been wanting to wear but can only wear on this occasion? Here’s my unpopular opinion: Not all attention is good attention, so be mindful how you present yourself outside.
  • Here’s how to recognize when it’s not good attention: those clothes aren’t suitable for anywhere else but this one night out. Perhaps another post is needed for the places you’re actually going 🧐
• Moreover, if you dress up and aim to impress yourself (and maybe that special guy, Mr. Only You Know Who 😘 (I say without trying to contradict the third bullet on boys)) all the other days, this day should be no different.

Gossiping? How about simply catching up?

• I know, I know, you’re with the boys (aka the girls 👯‍♀️), why wouldn’t you gossip? Here’s why: none of it matters; tomorrow you will have forgotten. Instead, spend time with your girls catching up. If you’re already caught up, dig deeper and ask questions to which you don’t have answers:
  • Politics
  • Economic State
  • AMERICA!
  • Night routine?
• I don’t know, but be intentional with the time you spend with your friends.

Boys? Boys! Boys.

• Boys? Do you spend your girls night out looking for boys instead? Are you desperate for attention and only seek it from boys? Have you found yourself only thinking about boys? Stop it, get some help. This medication is for you: “NOBOYME,” perfect for those suffering from the symptoms above.
• Boys! I know they are beautiful and may look especially appealing on your nights out, but don’t fall for it. They are there for one reason, and don’t let that reason be you. Now, not all boys are dutty-minded and looking for one ting, so remain breathtakingly beautiful, and let the right one come to you.
  • Of course, this isn’t to say that the right one will come only on girls’ night out! He’ll come whenever pookie 😉
• Boys. Don’t chase after them; let them chase after you, but not just because of your flashy clothes.

Feeling lonely in a room full of people?

• If that’s the case, they are not your real friends, but you probably knew that when they designated you their:
  • Designated driver
    • Come on. Not much to say here, babysitter.
  • Seat watchdog
    • Left to watch the seats while they go do whatever there is to do
    • Wouldn’t be a problem, except it’s always you, eversingletime.com
  • Photographer
    • How else will IG see this glorious night out if you aren’t there?
  • Videographer
    • Those TikTok videos won’t film themself, so giddy up
  • Laughing Stock
    • The only good laughs come from mocking or ridiculing you
• All jokes aside, pick your friends wisely for a faithful friend is a sturdy shelter and he who finds one finds a treasure (Sirach 6:14).

One too many drinks?

• I think not. Keep it classy not trashy. You never know who’s watching, but if that means nothing to you, remember to have respect for yourself. If you’re in a relationship, have respect for your man because you are also a reflection of him when he is not there.
• To my Christian girlies (& to all girlies), never reach the point of intoxication. Practice self-control and discipline. If no one is watching anyways, remember that the Lord is.

Okay, I’m done! Forgive me, I don’t like being mean to my girlies, but it needed to be said. Don’t worry, there will be a blog post for what you and your girlies can do to have an amazing night out if you’re looking for suggestions. With that being said, keep your clothes on 👗, shades on 😎, and gaze sweetly 🥺 (but not too sweet!).