Forgive me, but this blog post may not be for those who are not ready to hear it. It’s time to let that man go. This is your sign to neglect the men in your life with only one thing in mind.
Does He Only Hit You Up at a Specific Time? Preferably in the Night?
A man who is only communicating with you around the late hours of the day is likely thinking of one thing, and one thing only. The girlies on here know we don’t go for NONE of that; neglect the men who are only communicative at nightfall!
If you ever question these types of men about why they only text or FaceTime you in the booty-call hours of the day, and they say they were “busy”- let him go.
A man who respects a woman and truly wants her will make time for her throughout the day to keep some form of communication with her (even if it’s to let her know that they will be busy and may be short on communication).
To a man, you are the prize, and to you, he is the prize- but a prize must be worthy. Do not make an unworthy man worthy of something he does not deserve: you.
Does He ONLY want to “Netflix and Chill”?
At what point will a man “Netflix and Chill?” you for you to realize it’s time to let him go?. Him even asking once is already one too many for me, but consistently? It’s time to let that man go.
First of all, the time you share together is precious. And if you’ve not yet established a definitive relationship that you are looking for, this setup isn’t serving you.
If you desire to be in a loving and lasting relationship, neglect the men that only hits you up to “Netflix and Chill”, who dodges the “What are we?” question, and that does not see a future with you.
We all know what the “Chill” part intends, that Netflix part is just background noise. Listen to the voice in your head that is reminding you of what you truly desire.
Does Your Heart Want More?
If your heart wants more than the one thing he wants (🍑), let that man go. Set clear boundaries, make him aware of them, and see where that takes you.
When a man hears about these boundaries, he will do one of three things: respect them, tell you he can’t honor them, or pretend to respect them at first while planning to disregard them later.
Round of applause for the men who are genuinely looking to be in a loving relationship with the woman of his dreams. These are the men that will listen to these boundaries and respect them throughout the course of the relationship.
Ideally, we’d want a man to respect REASONABLE boundaries we set, but we should also respect the men who are upfront and honest enough to say they can’t meet those expectations and choose to walk away. That is a man that is not willing to waste your time or his 👏.
Now, other men will listen as you speak, but it all goes in one ear and out the other. They’ll say what you want to hear just to keep you around. Give it a few weeks or months, and their true colors will show… run.
Ok I’m done, I’m sowwy pookie for being a little meanie. I don’t believe in telling people what they want to hear to spare their feelings, and I would hope others would do the same for me.
The truth may hurt, but it’s what you do with it that makes the difference. To all the lover girls out there: your time will come. Be patient so you can choose wisely.
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